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Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Errors that can not easily forgiven in connection

Hatërmbetja, jealousy, ingratitude or no physical withdrawal are some sins which you would do well to avoid.

There are some mistakes or sins inside a relationship that can not be easily forgiven or that may be considered as unforgivable.

"I want the truth, but pardon gabimim", - stated in his letters once Voltaire. The problem is that there are errors that can not be forgiven in connection because inside a negative impact on its progress, bringing us to a loss of trust, cooperation, respect, and worst of all, the loss of feeling itself.

According to a recent study, the relationship between two people is as beautiful as it is difficult, therefore, each of the partners should pay her the importance of proper and perhaps even more, while also avoiding the sins of the following:

Hatërmbetja
At the beginning of a cohabitation may be small frequent quarrels caused by different actions. But here we must be careful because things hatërmbetja starts small and seemingly insignificant and grows until becoming a disturbing restlessness. But there are those situations where such hatërmbetje not expressed until the day comes and one of the partners "break." Never try to explain things in the above debate. Give each other time and when you're more relaxed try to find common ground.



jealousy
According to a definition of jealousy is a feeling that the issue unconscious and out of control, and precisely for this reason it is very dangerous in a relationship. Its presence in a relationship should be much smaller doses. Often it arises as a result of the uncertainties that we have to ourselves and not necessarily caused by the behavior or actions of the partner.

unrealistic expectations
Nobody is perfect, but such a fact often forgotten by many people. It is quite fair to imagine and expect things just as partner and vice versa, but not impossible. Everyone of us has a positive side as well as the negative, and to claim that a person is perfect not only a waste of time but you will create nervousness for smaller things.

Lack of time
The time you have to devote to each other should not fail, even if you had to sacrifice gym, a meeting overtime or benefits from a second job, do it. The more time you spend with each other so much stronger approach and become your connection.

Lack of communication
It happens that it is easy to "let off steam" and to show different things than the partner company. This can be no solution for the moment but for your connection. Not only beautiful things fall together, even the most beautiful little so as to keep away and that such a situation be forgotten with time and not repeated often.

Not being grateful
The fact that you caught there is no guarantee that things go more smoothly. The next sin to enter into a relationship is that of not being grateful. This put more new situations in which it is women who take care of home, children and the end of the day not even get a thank you from the partner. One of the things that did not cost us nothing and would be happy to have close person, to have to use more often.

Lack of withdrawal
Perhaps this is one of the worst sins that can exist inside a relationship. Do not pull on the partner physically, having no desire for intercourse or even just for a kiss is one of the most difficult problems that a link could pass, so Stay close to your partner.
 

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