It may have its source in perhaps some physical cause which sometimes made that children are: drying, despised and mocked by others for physical ones, find themselves offended low. There are even cases climb those peers were also various high posts offensive, and so ironic, these names were then remain for life. In this way, the close circle of friends is that sometimes cause the most beautiful time of childhood, then you should slap them pass without any worries, because of the insults that others do, is becoming big disaster , which made long passes helpless. In other words, the child since the tender age starts to feel themselves humiliated and humiliated by peers formed to him the idea of doubt and distrust in their abilities.
However, the great evil ways is especially offensive, derogatory and demeaning come from their own parents. Indifferent attitude of some parents towards children appear in various forms. Some, wanting to laugh a little, put the chaff for any shortfall that may eg Good and upright Non issuance of certain words or sounds by young children. And when their children begin to cry and weep, because the affected insulted by their shame, some parents, unfortunately, this was not impressed, but still continue to mock and ridicule them young them.
There are also some parents who decry ei insult children with all kinds of words and phrases banal, heavy improper, saying for example: "Shut up, you do not know anything!" Do not you touch it work "," work baby! ", or" You are to save the cows, you're the saddle. "etc..
But there are also parents who were brutally force the child to act against his will, eg hardly give to eat foods that do not, in any mood to eat immediately, or put at bed time without time to sleep, only to not come out to play, off, or awaken earlier than they should and so do children need to shed tears without
In addition, there are cases when some parents do not treat all their children equally. You can not assume that the children affected and insulted physical when they notice that their parents probably want more brother or sister of the beautiful sound, or, on the other hand, when the mother father son love more than girl, saying, Do not touch my son's not vex me! "And if that boy is mollycoddle" for hasret ", then oil trouble for his sisters, because some parents do not allow you to touch even with panache. But some parents among us go even further, as allegedly being ridiculed, even make this kind of absurd comparisons: "You can not krahasoheni girls with boys" or "This guy do not give even a hundred daughters" etc.. these action affecting the way, damning and very unhappy souls moist without ill children and the more girls. 'All these affect the course and even more unhappy child, make them weak nerves ahead of time, because the constant fight with peers and parents, there is always possible, ei underestimated printed, all these he extinguish the initiative suppress it, do not let it wants, do not trust it does not respected nor appreciated the work or his personality. In a word, the underestimate of defy anyone. Behold, here is the main source of the formation of a sense of inferiority in some children. And this, no doubt, stimulate other feelings, such as that of hatred and ahmarrjes to all those who scorn of ridicule, of squelching.
By acting in this way to some children, treating them as helpless, helpless, ignorant, laughing, joking pajada humiliated, intentionally and unintentionally, by not respecting their opinions and initiatives without asking never thought anything of them, these children grow and become weak character without any initiative, people become humble, always inferior to the Shaping of the most powerful.
Meanwhile, what humiliates and degrades the child, who sat very heavily on the child's personality, qortuarit is very heavy with offensive words, especially beating, especially when it is done in the presence of other children. Even more unfortunate is if parents do so with their children even when he is older, the critical age of puberty when the body of a child beginning to make significant changes in physiological and emotional instant, when hypersensitive, restless and confused as.
Right at this age often strikes adults affected child and immediately insulted so too, the desperation that can quickly deploy to fatal things, which have dire consequences of leaving a scar that can not forget then parents for life: the world gets in the eye, leaving the parents or sometimes - though rarely - is that the end of his life so cruel.
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