Being a good father

Being a good father, is the target of the majority of men who plan to become parents. And yet it is a very difficult task, more difficult than that of motherhood.
Main doubt is about young fathers: to have a friendly relationship with the kids, or maintaining authoritarian attitude; made them play friends or be experienced guide the lives of children? But psychologists have done more research to help fathers as much as possible on their journey as parents. Researchers and psychologists have attempted to learn whether parental educational style and how the behavior affects children.
The focus of the research was to find a key misdemeanor deviant behavior of some teenagers ... and finding out if they have to make these educational style of their fathers. To find the answers, researchers have examined a group of 600 students who attended during key stage of their growth, the middle school and the high. In this way, researchers have faced three different educational styles fathers: authoritative (reliable), owner (prescriptive) and tolerant (soft). Results have shown that the dominant style (imperative) is the worst possible.
A parent prescriptive orders, which should not be questioned. And this is a kind of power-biased controller and prevents the exchange of viewpoints between parents and children. Adult children with this type of educational system tend to be suspicious of adults and isolated. Tend to stimulate the desire to rebel against a system, which live as a barrier that forces and do not want to hear. It often happens that the above, then bring unacceptable behavior and minor. Soft style (tolerant) stands at the opposite end.

Fathers of this type are always ready emit ever seen, do not impose rules or even if i put, do not go to the end to see if children put them into effect. And then there are profoundly tolerant if children disregard the rules set for them. Children of these fathers do not see their parents. and other adults, as an authority figure. But not only that. It also affects their relationships with ourselves: can grow with a high uncertainty for their capacity and low self-control skills. Growing up, can also exhibit deviant behavior or evil:Well, as said Latinos: Virtue lies in the middle. Otherwise stated. in case authoritative style (that evokes trust) is the best to put in place by their fathers. This parenting style will produce in the future ... balanced children, who know how to manage their autonomy, which are able to live in a positive social and personal life.
A father with authority is a guide who knows how to establish and maintain appropriate distance with children Put rules and is careful that they are respected, but at the same time is willing to explain the reasons and to listen to the demands and needs of the child as and their perspective. An authoritative father is a solid figure and reliable, able to manifest simultaneously softness feeling. A careful parent to child.In summary: parenting style has its direct impact on the opportunities for children to perceive father as a legitimate authority figure ... and then, teenagers who see their fathers thus, that their recognize and appreciate the trust authority to their abilities, are less likely to develop in this period of increasing their offense behavior.